The Abby Cat Daddy

Feline Advocate Society

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  • Why Two Kittens Are Better Than One:

    Why Two Kittens Are Better Than One:

    Preventing Single Kitten Syndrome

    When it comes to adopting kittens, many people assume that taking home just one is simpler, easier, or more manageable. But did you know that adopting a pair is often healthier, happier, and better for everyone involved—especially the kittens?

    At Abby Cat Daddy, we frequently advocate for adopting kittens in pairs—and there’s good reason. Young cats have complex social and behavioral needs that are often best met by a feline friend. When raised alone, a kitten may struggle with what’s known as Single Kitten Syndrome, a condition that can lead to developmental, behavioral, and emotional challenges.

    What Is Single Kitten Syndrome?

    Single Kitten Syndrome describes a range of problematic behaviors that can emerge when a kitten is raised without a littermate or age-appropriate companion. These kittens may become overly dependent on their humans for attention and stimulation, which can result in:

    • Excessive vocalization or neediness
    • Rough play or aggression
    • Difficulty learning boundaries
    • Litter box issues
    • Overstimulation and biting during petting

    According to the National Kitten Coalition, these behaviors stem from a lack of essential peer-to-peer learning that happens through normal kitten play and social interaction. Without a sibling to wrestle, chase, and cuddle with, single kittens may not learn how to moderate their bite, respect boundaries, or self-soothe during stress National Kitten Coalition, 2022.

    The Benefits of Adopting Two Kittens

    Kittens adopted in pairs tend to grow into more well-adjusted adult cats. They:

    • Learn social cues from each other—like when play has gone too far
    • Burn off energy together, which reduces the risk of destructive behavior in your home
    • Keep each other company, lowering the risk of separation anxiety
    • Cuddle and groom one another, providing emotional support and bonding

    Most importantly, two kittens raised together are often easier to care for in the long run. They tire each other out, are more independent, and are far less likely to develop the behavioral problems that can arise from loneliness or under-stimulation.

    Double the Trouble? Not Quite.

    Many assume two kittens will mean twice the work—but that’s often not the case. Feeding, cleaning, and vet visits for two kittens are only marginally more effort, especially when compared to the long-term behavioral challenges of a single, under-stimulated kitten.

    Our Commitment

    At Abby Cat Daddy, we see the difference daily. Kittens raised in pairs grow into more confident, content, and balanced adult cats. Whenever possible, we strongly encourage adopters to consider adopting two kittens—especially if they’re under four months of age or have bonded in foster care.

    By choosing to adopt a pair, you’re setting them up for a lifetime of companionship, learning, and love.

    Learn more about Single Kitten Syndrome and the research behind it at the National Kitten Coalition.

    Ready to Adopt?

    If you’ve read this far, you already know why two kittens are truly better than one. Many of the kittens in our care are already paired with a sibling or a best friend—and they’re just waiting to meet you. Visit our Adoptions Page to browse bios, learn about their personalities, and find your perfect pair. A happier, healthier future starts with two.

    Resources

    For more information on kitten behavior and care, visit kittencoalition.org.

  • Why We Focus on Local Cats: Protecting the Fraser Valley’s Forgotten Felines

    Why We Focus on Local Cats: Protecting the Fraser Valley’s Forgotten Felines

    At Abby Cat Daddy the Feline Advocate Society (ACD), everything we do is rooted in one guiding belief: that every cat deserves safety, care, and dignity—especially those living in our own backyard. That’s why we focus exclusively on cats from the Fraser Valley. Because here, in the communities we call home, there is a quiet but devastating crisis playing out every day.

    And if we don’t show up for these cats—who will?

    We know that helping animals from out of region often feels like a powerful, compassionate choice. And it is, in many cases. But we’ve learned through lived experience that bringing in cats from other cities, provinces, or countries—while well-intentioned—can unintentionally hurt the cats who are already suffering right here. Cats who are often overlooked. Forgotten. Replaced by ones deemed more “urgent” simply because their stories come from elsewhere.

    The Fraser Valley’s Hidden Crisis

    The reality is that the Fraser Valley has a massive feline overpopulation problem. Every year, thousands of cats are born into homelessness—in fields, behind dumpsters, under porches, in industrial zones, and on farms. Many will never know a gentle touch, warm bed, or full belly. Others were once loved but have since been abandoned or left behind. And because of a severe lack of accessible spay/neuter services, affordable veterinary care, and education, the problem is only getting worse.

    At ACD, our commitment is to the cats who were already here—the ones being born into these conditions every single day. That’s why we’ve invested in community-based programs like TNR (Trap-Neuter-Return), our Last Litter Initiative, and upcoming efforts to increase affordable access to standard veterinary care—so more people can help their cats before issues become emergencies.

    Because we know we cannot simply adopt our way out of this.

    And we certainly can’t adopt our way out of someone else’s crisis, either.

    Adoptions Alone Won’t Solve This

    Let us be clear: we fully support and respect the work of organizations that respond to crises outside of their home regions. Groups that fly in to provide disaster response, sterilization campaigns, medical aid, or policy reform in high-need areas are doing important, life-saving work.

    But that work must go deeper than simply relocating cats through out-of-area adoptions. Because while adoption is beautiful and transformative, it is not a solution to overpopulation. It is a response to a symptom.

    Without addressing the root causes—lack of access to spay/neuter, poverty, stray populations, abandonment, and unregulated backyard breeding—this cycle continues. For every cat adopted out, there are five more being born. We must be honest about this.

    So while some organizations choose to extend their reach, we’ve chosen to go deep. To focus locally. To invest in programs that build long-term, sustainable change from the ground up.

    Why Bringing In Cats From Outside Hurts Local Ones

    When we bring in cats from elsewhere, we’re not creating more room—we’re filling space that could have gone to a cat already here. Our foster homes, vet appointments, donations, and adoptive families are all finite. Every cat brought in from another region means a local cat may be passed over, left behind, or euthanized elsewhere because the space simply isn’t there.

    Our fosters are full. Our vet partners are stretched. Our adoption waitlists grow. And yet, the stream of local cats in need never ends.

    It’s not about comparing suffering. It’s about recognizing capacity, and doing what we can where we are. And here in the Fraser Valley, there is still so much to do.

    We’re Focused on Solutions That Last

    At ACD, we believe the only way to create real, lasting change is to work upstream—to stop the suffering before it starts. That means:

    • Expanding access to affordable veterinary care
    • Supporting people who care for community cats
    • Helping families keep their cats through education and resources
    • Investing in public awareness about responsible pet guardianship
    • TNR programs to humanely manage and reduce stray populations

    Our goal isn’t just to find homes for cats—it’s to create a future where there are fewer cats suffering to begin with. We don’t want to grow to accommodate more emergencies. We want fewer emergencies. That’s the difference.

    So while some may question why we “only” help Fraser Valley cats, we see it as a deep commitment—to our community, to sustainable change, and to the cats who otherwise have no one advocating for them.

    Because local cats are just as worthy. Just as desperate. Just as deserving. And their futures depend on us keeping our promise to put them first.

    Way’s to Support Our Efforts

  • Founder Logan Bryan in the News (Again!)

    We’re excited to share that our Founder and President, Logan Bryan, has once again been featured in the media—helping bring critical attention to the cat overpopulation crisis and the work Abby Cat Daddy is doing to build long-term, community-based solutions.

    🐾 ChillTV/AbbyTV’s DayBreak Feature
    Logan recently appeared on DayBreak, a local current affairs show on ChillTV/AbbyTV. In the interview, he discussed our rescue’s ongoing programs, the importance of spaying and neutering, and how we’re working to tackle the root causes of the community cat crisis through accessible veterinary care and targeted TNR (Trap-Neuter-Return) efforts.
    🎥 Watch the full interview: Logan starts at 16:10

    📰 Fraser Valley Today (FVT)
    A few weeks ago, Fraser Valley Today published a media release highlighting the growing kitten population and calling for public support. The article emphasized that Abby Cat Daddy doesn’t just treat the symptoms—we’re working toward long-term solutions through low-cost sterilization, community education, and TNR.
    📖 Read the article here: https://fraservalleytoday.ca/2025/05/18/abbotsford-rescue-organization-calls-for-help-as-kitten-population-rises/

    📣 Fraser Valley News Network (FVN)
    Just today, Fraser Valley News Network spotlighted our June events and how the public can support our lifesaving work across the region. This includes our:

    • Bottle Drives
      • June 7: Ellwood Park, Abbotsford
      • June 14: Centennial Park, Mission
      • June 21: Watson Glen Park, Chilliwack
        Bring your empty cans, bottles, and milk containers in clear or blue bags between 11 AM–2 PM. Need a pickup? Message us and we’ll try to coordinate it!
    • Community Booth at the Downtown Chilliwack Market
      • June 28: Central Park, 10 AM–2 PM
        Visit us for cat-themed merchandise, info on how to get involved, and updates on our Thrift Store & Adoption Centre plans.
    • Summer 50/50 Raffle
      Tickets are just $5 each or 5 for $20—and every ticket helps fund our TNR program, vet care, and community outreach.
      🎟️ Buy tickets here: https://tinyurl.com/acdsumraf

    📖 Read the full FVN article here: https://fraservalleynewsnetwork.com/2025/06/02/support-local-cats-this-june-with-abby-cat-daddy-events-across-the-fraser-valley/

    🐱 Why This Matters
    As kitten season ramps up and our resources are stretched thin, this kind of media attention helps us reach new supporters and expand our impact. From spay/neuter access to community education, our mission is rooted in long-term change—not just temporary fixes.

    If you’re new to Abby Cat Daddy, welcome! And if you’ve been with us for a while, thank you—this visibility is a direct result of your support.

    💛 Want to get involved? Learn how to donate, foster, or volunteer at theabbycatdaddy.ca